I have several short guns and a couple long guns. I agree about the .40/.45 and my everyday carry is the Springfield sub .40 with a change up with the 357 (lighter). My wife once had the pink lady, but when the barrel blew off while I was shooting it I made her get a real run, glock, and she choose the .45 sub. A bit much for her I thought at first but she can shot a real tight group with it.
Something I found interesting was the kimber only makes 1911's, and I want one or two also.
You and your wife really need to get your CWP if only to protect yourselves moving the weapons. But always remember, if you don't have your permit with you, you don't have a permit.