I didn't just grow up. I was taught to speak when I entered a room. Say please and thank you, to have respect for my elders and to get off my lazy butt and let the elder in the room have my chair. Say, "Yes sir" and "No sir," lend a helping hand to those in need, hold the door for the person behind me, say "excuse me" when it's needed and to love people for who they are and not for what I can get from them. I was also taught to treat people the way I wanted to be treated.
I hope you were raised this way too.
Dee