Thanks all,
Reason for the pistol is to carry when out and to take camping. Some places we have stayed were not the best you know
protecting myself or family while out without a pistol is not really an option anymore, so I feel the need to carry a side arm..
Been in that very situation in a State Park and a stoned armed stranger,actually heard the idiots planning the robbery( and the teenager being goaded into it by an older bum/sleazeball to do the dirty work as he stood back,very bizarre situation)!!! Much like the beltway shooter dynamic.Manipulated young adult.
And what to do with us after,fortunately stoned out kid didnt have the inhumanity to go thru with it.We were in the perfect isolated spot,without options but verbal reasoning,nothing else,kid caved and literally ran away from the entire situation into the woods,wow!!!!....dont want to go there.
In our case the bear spray would have been the perfect answer,also didnt have.
I believe in a layered measured escalated response,and options,not just gun or no gun.Going from zero to the nuclear option is not good for civilians,maybe LEO,but we civilians play by other rules and laws.And they are far more restrictive.
My home defense is lights, fence,dogs,spray,taser,knife,and the last resort(actually have even more in the non lethal group,the internet is your friend for ideas) .And you would have to be pretty stupid to escalate just to number three,the dogs.
Options.
Outside... situational awareness is prime number one on the list now,I see everything,Im looking well outward,I see a potential sleezeball plan B immediately goes on the radar,they get closer,plan C-palm the spray,closer...Plan D arm taser,head out of area,etc etc etc......have to be aware and have a plan,an escalating one with multiple options.Getting out of the normalcy bias,you have to see AND react fast!
I will NOT get caught flat footed again.And I have no Rambo illusions,I think instead at least now I have a chance.Your lowlife fool this will work,your pro,we are still in deep doodoo,even armed with a gun.
Finally,you get a gun,you must get some kind of realistic stress inducing training if thats your only option,or it isnt going be a damn bit useful.Professional Bad guy isnt going to wait while you arm,draw a defensive pose,etc,its going to come at you FAST,you prepared to make that life death instant decision...when stressed you wont be able to move unless trained to do so.
Options.Lots of em.Think this out
completely IMO.