Tommy I agree with you on how some forums are run. The Ego stuff gets to me!
I am on the Jets forum the most
The backyard Theater forum the second most.
Two food forums (including this one) the third most.
The Cardinals Baseball & Football the fourth most.
The Genesis (music) forum is another forum I am on about once a month.
The sports forums are 50/50 as far as people being nice. (Cardinals baseball & football get low grades).
The Jets are about 65/35 good people)
The Backyard Theater is also a great site until they closed two weeks ago
Food forums are great with people always willing to help (just don't mention Turkey bacon or Ketchup on steak)
The Genesis forum is about 70/30 as far as people being nice.
One other thing I have noticed ......People from other countries are generally very nice people on all the forums.