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Title: I need your prayers....My brother Bob had a major stroke today.
Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 06, 2020, 09:57:27 PM
He is in ICU right now & the next 48 hours are so critical. On top of this he is in a hospital in NY state as the one in CT could not handle his case.

Thanks everyone!!!!!!
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Post by: TentHunteR on April 06, 2020, 10:14:45 PM
Prayers being sent!
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Post by: GusRobin on April 06, 2020, 10:35:29 PM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: ACW3 on April 06, 2020, 11:24:13 PM
Prayers sent!!

Art
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Post by: sparky on April 07, 2020, 01:18:47 AM
Prayers sent partner.
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Post by: CDN Smoker on April 07, 2020, 02:29:14 AM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: sliding_billy on April 07, 2020, 02:54:45 AM
You both are in my prayers.  After two medium grade stokes in the past 7 years, I understand what he is going through.
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Post by: Cajunate on April 07, 2020, 05:49:37 AM

Prayers sent.
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Post by: HighOnSmoke on April 07, 2020, 07:11:28 AM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: TMB on April 07, 2020, 08:10:18 AM
Prayers for him and the family Richard.   A tough thing to go trough 
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Post by: Lines on April 07, 2020, 08:25:12 AM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: Pappymn on April 07, 2020, 09:36:18 AM
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Post by: RG on April 07, 2020, 11:31:06 AM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: tlg4942 on April 07, 2020, 02:14:13 PM
 Prayers sent. 
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 07, 2020, 02:55:03 PM
Thanks so much everyone. He is stable now & if his brain does not swell in the next 24 hours they may move him out of ICU. Because of the virus in NY we can't go see him & must get info over the phone. Thanks again for your prayers. God Bless you all Richard
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Post by: teesquare on April 07, 2020, 08:15:21 PM
Thoughts and prayed for you Richard. Hope for a full and speedy recovery.
T
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Post by: old sarge on April 07, 2020, 09:39:30 PM
Just finished praying.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 08, 2020, 11:10:06 AM
Thanks Everyone! No new info yet & we are not allowed to visit him. Thanks to everyone here & please stay safe!
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 10, 2020, 08:08:07 PM
He is stable now but not out of the woods yet & he can have no visits even from our family.  Things are still very bad up here with someone we know having a baby girl two days ago...but both parents testing positive for the virus. We also have my wife's stepfather being tested for the virus as he was put on morphine as he had trouble taking a breath.....again no visits. Thanks for your prayers folks & please stay safe.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 13, 2020, 01:55:08 PM
Bad news......My brother is in rehab he can't move his left leg & arm or eat by himself. My wife's stepfather is fighting for his life his temp is 105. We got him on the cocktail yesterday but today he can't swallow. We can only hope that he got enough of the cocktail in him in a day & a half to keep him going. reports say that the temp can spike before people feel better. slim chance but that is what we are praying for.  Thanks for all your prayers.....This Virus is so bad. My wife's mom has the virus in her place & as far as we know it has not spread from one worker. The new parents are doing OK as both have tested positive for the virus but are younger. Stay well my friends!!!!!!
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Post by: GusRobin on April 13, 2020, 02:20:04 PM
Sorry to hear that. In Alabama we are supposed to peak next Monday. Keeping the prayers for your family.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 13, 2020, 04:11:49 PM
Sorry to hear that. In Alabama we are supposed to peak next Monday. Keeping the prayers for your family.

Thanks T, Gus & everyone. Please stay safe!!!!!!
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 14, 2020, 10:41:01 AM
My Wife's Stepfather passed away at 11:00pm last night ...Corona Virus...Please stay safe folks....this is so real
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Post by: TMB on April 14, 2020, 10:44:07 AM
My Wife's Stepfather passed away at 11:00pm last night ...Corona Virus...Please stay safe folks....this is so real
So sorry to here  Richard.   We'll be praying for Y'all
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 14, 2020, 11:07:36 AM
My Wife's Stepfather passed away at 11:00pm last night ...Corona Virus...Please stay safe folks....this is so real
So sorry to here  Richard.   We'll be praying for Y'all

Thanks so much Tommy!!!!  Please stay safe yourself.
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Post by: Big Dawg on April 15, 2020, 02:05:40 PM
My deepest sympathy to you and your family in this time of trouble.  I will keep all of you in my prayers.





BD
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Post by: sparky on April 15, 2020, 07:01:20 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.   Prayers sent your way partner to your family.
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Post by: RG on April 15, 2020, 07:53:11 PM
So very sorry to hear of this Richard. You and your family will be in my prayers. Stay safe.
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Post by: Lines on April 15, 2020, 08:54:39 PM
Very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 16, 2020, 10:29:29 AM
Thanks Everyone I have a good friend who was in Vietnam & saw terrible action during his tour. He feels this is much worse. Anyway thanks to all of you for your kind words & prayers ...Please stay safe!
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Post by: HighOnSmoke on April 16, 2020, 11:09:11 AM
Sorry for your loss Richard. Prayers sent.
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Post by: CDN Smoker on April 16, 2020, 11:35:09 AM
Very sorry to hear
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on April 22, 2020, 05:36:15 PM
Thanks for all your prayers please keep them coming. My brother just found out he tested positive for the virus. He got it from his rehab roommate That's all we know at this time as we can not see him & his wife gets a few moments with a doctor each day. 
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on May 13, 2020, 12:56:20 PM
My Brother has not been tested again so we are not sure if he is virus free as of today. Four weeks in, his mind is there one day & gone the next. His left side has not come back at all yet & they have moved him to another rehab place where we still cannot visit him...… Thanks for all your prayers.

We have not had a service yet for Barbara's stepfather that passed from Covid a few weeks back. Still cannot visit his wife as she lives alone in assisted living.

Barbara has not found out on her job as the company is not updating anyone as of today. Five weeks now!

Then things went from bad to worse in 15 seconds. Last weekend we were eating homemade pizza & Barbara went to make some fried dough for my son on a pan on our stove.  Well she turned her back for a few seconds & the next thing the kids & I saw was her running into our sunroom heading for the door with the pan on fire...…. She slipped & hot oil went on her, the couch, a basket & the pan rolled on the floor spreading the fire. It was a series of fires all over the room.

Well I may not be a good cook, but I believe in safety. I must have 21 fire alarms (both kinds), two heat alarms, 9 C02 alarms & two escape ladders in our house which by the way is not a big house. So, Barbara then ran out of the room as did both the kids. I have a large fire extinguisher in that room within feet of one of the fires. I got that out & put out each of the fires in under 30 seconds. I also have two in the kitchen one in the basement, one in the upstairs, one in the room over the garage one in the living room. The one in the sunroom (4 seasons) is the biggest thank God as it doubles for the outside grills. I have instructed the kids only put out a fire if you have an escape behind you. I had instructed them on what to do in a kitchen fire, but my wife thought she could make it outside.... a big mistake.

Anyway, Barbara has second degree burns on one of her arms & on one of her legs. She did not want to go to the hospital as the virus is all over there, so she is now stuck in bed with the doctors treating her over the phone.  It has been some 10 days for all of us.  It is slow healing as anyone who has had burns will tell you. Anyway, more prayers would be appreciated as she is in pain & we pray the scars will go away. We feel we were blessed that the burns were only second degree & we did not lose the house & for some reason the dog  was not where he normally is when food is around. If he lit on fire & ran through the house we would have been in real trouble.

Stay safe everyone.
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Post by: sparky on May 13, 2020, 01:19:34 PM
I'm so sorry about your wife.  I hope she heals well and quickly.
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Post by: TMB on May 13, 2020, 02:14:20 PM
Richard so sorry to hear about this.   I've had burns but not like that and know it's not anything anyone would want to go through.

praying for you guys   
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Post by: GusRobin on May 13, 2020, 02:59:27 PM
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes. Our prayers are with you and your family.
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Post by: RG on May 13, 2020, 05:42:27 PM
Richard, I don't know why all this has landed in your lap but I can say that you're handling it far better than I could!

I am sending prayers your way friend, I hope things improve for y'all quickly!!

Take care and God Bless.
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Post by: Roget on May 14, 2020, 07:10:29 AM
Very sorry to hear about all your misfortune.
It can be very demoralizing. hope things get better quickly for you and your family.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on May 14, 2020, 03:04:08 PM
Thanks so much everyone your prayers & good thoughts mean everything to us. No change except Barbara is feeling more pain in her leg now......The Doctors think this may be a good thing in that it is healing. Looks terrible but We were still lucky. Again, thanks you are all special people.
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Post by: bitteraztec on May 14, 2020, 10:51:44 PM
I am so sorry for all that you have been going through.  Sending prayers


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Post by: Tailgating is my game on May 15, 2020, 02:37:21 PM
I am so sorry for all that you have been going through.  Sending prayers


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Thanks so much!!!!!
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Post by: teesquare on May 15, 2020, 07:36:53 PM
Stay well, and.....deep breaths.Some days...heck some months have been challenging  but this too shall pass. Keep the faith brother-
T
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Post by: Jaxon on May 15, 2020, 09:43:42 PM
It saddens me to hear all that you and your family are going through.

At times like this, I can find few words to offer, but I will tell you we are offering prayers for you.
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Post by: TentHunteR on May 16, 2020, 05:20:37 PM
Dang! I'll be praying extra hard for you!  Hang in there, and keep looking upward!
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Post by: Lines on May 16, 2020, 05:41:39 PM
Prayer for you and all of the family. Very sorry to hear.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on June 12, 2020, 01:29:27 PM
First I got thank you all again for your prayers...they really helped!!!!! Thanks a Million.

My Brother after a month is Covid free & has some movement in his left leg. So that leaves his left arm that is not working at all as of today. His speech is good but he is still down & losses focus at times. It will be a long road back.

Barbara my bride after 4 weeks of bad burns is getting better & pain free, It looks like there will be no scars left in the future as for now she must keep her leg & arm out of the sun. But she is 90% back.

I can't complain but I got hit with two oral surgeries back to back.......Yes you heard it right. I split a tooth to the gum ....Now don't laugh folks it was on my homemade pizza........It was a soft slice too. The doctor was only seeing people like me & as he is working on it I tell him you know Doc something is not right I still feel pain. I am halfway home & the pain is amazing....so I figure it is the "after pain"........well that night it was as bad as I have ever had......He says come back in when I tell him it is not the same tooth......I was right a wisdom tooth was full of decay ...so out that comes & for the last eight days it has been something.....Just today I stopped taking advil, & two other pain meds......all along I kept saying this in nothing compared to what others are facing....

What I have learned from this as I have been ready for this virus coming for years.......I knew it......but........you can't prepare for everything......life happens even  with a virus to deal with.  All my emergency planning & supplies helped but you never have enough.

Let me add this if they are right we are only half way home on this virus now for rounds 1.0 & 1-5. They are looking at  maybe 200,000 dead by the fall. That is almost double what we have now. We must live our life but don't let your guard down. Then when winter hits round 2 in my book could be even worse.

So the dentist said I want to see you twice in two weeks to three weeks.....I said doc you are going to see me one time for both appointments not two times. He agreed!  So the staff gives me a date in the middle of the day & in the middle of the week. I said no thank you & I asked about a Monday morning first appointment so they asked why......I said because you are closed Friday - Sunday & I want any leftover virus dead by then.  So we picked a date for 7:30 on a Monday,.....

So again thanks for you prayers & please everyone stay safe & happy Richard

No the pizza was not hard lol
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Post by: Walleyewacker on June 12, 2020, 01:50:04 PM
Praying For all the issues that your having Tailgating is my game
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on June 12, 2020, 06:08:23 PM
Praying For all the issues that your having Tailgating is my game

Thanks so much
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Post by: RG on June 12, 2020, 08:32:50 PM
Richard, thanks for the update. We all could use as much good news as we can get and I am certainly glad you're finally getting some good news. Long overdue!
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Post by: sparky on June 13, 2020, 01:08:05 AM
Glad everyone is doing better partner.
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Post by: Tailgating is my game on June 16, 2020, 06:38:38 PM
Lost my mother-in-laws boss today because of covid. Things are getting better now. But it is only as good as the people you know. I hope you are all well