Here in Georgia BBQ means a type of food. Not the act of cooking it. We call a grill just that, a grill. We don't call it a BBQ. We don't call a gathering to eat food cooked on a grill a BBQ either. It's called grilling out or cooking out. So, you might be invited to a cook out but never a BBQ. In the South, as I said already, BBQ is a type of food and usually that means a chopped or pulled pork sandwich. Over the years it has come to encompass Ribs, Chicken, Brisket, etc....if it's cooked on a smoker, low and slow, it is BBQ.