This is so much fun... I really do enjoy reading about the "things we are supposed to do - from the experts", the "things we should NEVER do - from the experts", and what we all do from cooking in our backyard.
I can find dozens of sites that tell me to soak my wood chips / chunks before smoking and dozens that say never soak the wood. Brining vs. non-brining. Hot & fast vs. low and slow. Lump vs. briquette, vs. electric, vs. wood, vs. pucks...
The thing I enjoy is reading and watching, thinking and then doing something on my own. If it works and my family and friends like it, I write it down and keep it for the future. If they (or I) hate it - it goes away. This is just such a fun journey, learning to make food that my friends and family enjoy, while reading and seeing what all of you do, giving me great new ideas.
So, I have no absolutes (except the recipes / ideas that didn't work for me.) Otherwise, I am wide open and appreciate and enjoy everything you folks post. Thank you!