Ok I had some time to try again. I went back to Cooks Illustrated for advice. They had a video and I like videos. Really easy to relate.
Roux,
3/4 cup plus 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
1/2 cup vegetable oil
Ok with CI they brown the flour dry before adding the oil. I did this and it was ok. Then it was into an oven at 350F for 45 min. It came out blond but then back to the stove to darken the colour.
When you hit the colour you want add your onion, green pepper and celery.
I'm not going to tell ya'll how to make Gumbo,
The plate, rice first,
Gumbo on top,
Issues I had in trying to make this. Going to the store (many stores),
Where do you keep your okra, what's okra
Where do you keep the Andouille sausage, what's Andouille
Comments from Wife, my God you put a lot of time into cooking most would starve
She had two bowels
, first bowel of Gumbo she ever had not saying mine is anywhere close to a good Gumbo.
Thanks for taking the time to view my post