I live in Morganton, about 25 miles due west of Hickory on I-40. There is a lot around Hickory to like. When we need to do any major shopping, we go to Hickory, or Asheville or Charlotte, usually in that order. All are within easy driving distance. I go to Charlotte only occasionally and try to schedule it around the rush hours, whenever possible. The traffic around Charlotte is a lot like the Washington, DC area traffic. Since I used to live in the DC area for many years before moving here, I don't miss the traffic.
Our grandson, and his parents, live in Durham, so we are able to drive over to visit them every now and then, too. I like NC. There is a lot to do and see. If you have any questions, I'm sure at least one of us could give you an answer.
Art