Are we at a disadvantage?

[tomcrete1]

Kids are moved out, Wife is retired and I work so she can stay retired, the cooking thing i just picked up along with all the grills as a hobby! 

[Roget]

My agreement with V is...I do the cooking, she does the cleaning.
I do try to keep my cook area (kitchen or deck) clean as I cook, but after meals she takes over the cleanup of whatever is left. 
I usually offer to help cleanup after the meal but not always.

[RG]

My agreement with V is...I do the cooking, she does the cleaning.
I do try to keep my cook area (kitchen or deck) clean as I cook, but after meals she takes over the cleanup of whatever is left. 
I usually offer to help cleanup after the meal but not always.

That sounds like a great deal to me!