To not let all the little crap aggravate me, to appreciate all the good stuff more, to make my kids think I am not as dumb as they thought I was when they were teenagers, to have my precious grandaugher run to me with her arms out yelling "Poppa" like she did at Christmas, to have my wife say "you did good Old Man", to appreciate my friends and family, those who are close and those who are far. And most of all to live through it so I can do it all again next year.