My mom was one of the "You just wait 'till your father gets home, types." Funny thing was, she usually forgot to tell him about whatever transgression my brothers, sisters or I committed. Actually, when I think about those days, I think of the Bill Withers song - Grandma's Hands...... I got my fair share of spankings, and I deserved everyone of them. But, mom made sure they came only when they were really needed. I never really knew either of my grandmas, but my mom made up for it.